Thursday, January 17 ♥
l♥ved, The break up behavior
This is hard... after a couple finally decide to go their separate ways, its the 'so we're officially over' phase. Where you tell people how your relationship ended. Especially your best girlfriends, usually, all the juiciest details included. When you share your story, it'll usually be the 'bad guy, good guy' kinda story.
After an almost fairy tale like story ended and its beginning to sound a lot like the movie 'Thin red line' (the most 'WAR-ly' movie i've ever watched), the love between 2 people will disappear and become some life long feud that can only be solved through grabbing each other's neck (or balls, if you prefer).
Your girlfriends will be on 'stand by' mode just in case you need someone to kick his ass when you're too busy crying. Or you'll blogging in CAPS and in RED telling people how assholic he had been (been there done that). The break up behavior is somehow always filled with things that you'll think you'll never do.
Tonight, I heard the most dramatic break up behavior from my dearest friend who happens to be the victim. I think his ex girlfriend was close to chopping his head off... she's like the epitome of.... can you think of a fancier name than 'the bad ex'. She even laid a finger (let's just say about 5 fingers?) on him! When he didn't even cheated on her or did something remotely near wrong. PLUS, she checked his handphone and demanded explanations if she sees foreign female names, when they are broken up... and she did the what not-s that you can think of.. its just really hard to believe that there's so many degrees to the break up behavior.
No matter how bad a break up was, its still not reasonable for someone to physically hurt someone else... its like you're a brute. Moreover, he didn't do anything wrong... if you start reflecting on yourself for once.