Monday, October 1 ♥
l♥ved, china sex
My weekend roller-coaster ride (xiao ma)... and my eyes are soooo tiny :(
...we were talking on sexual activities uni students do in china... its jaw-dropping.. at least to me. It is OK to get raunchy with your bf practically anywhere. The norm would be getting a hotel room...
ME: *my eyes as wide as a 50cent coin* really?!!! then have u done it?
XM: Yes i have!
ME: *i don't believe cos she's the guai guai kind who wouldn't even kill an ant* WITH WHO?
XM: My dad
-.-....
XM: When he visits me...
I think, many would think that China is this conservative country and watching porn is practically a crime. Apparently not. Its like super OK to have sex with your bf even if ur relationship is not at the mature stage. And there are even females who behave like Samantha Jones (she has sex with anyone attractive with no strings attached).
What about LOVE? U may ask.. I guess the only type that exists is those that they will be making it in the hotel room.
Its weird, cos what happened to those vows you write when u were in primary school saying that you won't settle anything lesser than an engagement before u get naked with someone. Of course we don't mean it, cos when we get older, there's the threat of never meeting 'the one'.
I'm just saying, why people don't wait anymore? The finishing line doesn't have to be an engagement or the wedding night, it can be when u're really in love. In love and making it is different. Its sad that its becoming like this... what happened to dating and courtship and those different stages we used to define so clearly in secondary school?
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