Thursday, May 19 ♥
l♥ved, The EX-factor
Its really weird how the 'ex-s' affects the current gf or bf (nt really sure abt guys..but does it affect u? teeny tiny bit?)... *waits for imaginary response*... aww don't lie!
I believe many... many gf asked their current bf abt their ex-s before.. how they look/dress/their figure/hair....whatever is like..and finally..which one the guy prefers best. GUYS, pls don't fall into this trap! its almost FATAL( caps. shows the intensity of the consequence) to the relationship...also...watch what u say!
Till now (after thinking for a few hrs), i still don't know why some girls bother to feel anything about the EX. The EX just loooms above the relationship... whenever ur boo does smthg sweet for u, u'll think 'he probabbly would've done it for his ex/-s before... so it isn't that thoughtful or sweet afterall. U may altercate with things like 'awww...its different!'...how different? besides doing it for a different person? Well, then again...if tricks were to be broken up and moved on like the last relationship.. u'll need damn lot of stuffs up ur sleeves to make ur boo happy/excited/suprised/whatever.
SO don't...step into this whole tunnel of thoughts like me. Once u get into the whole EX-factor vibe, u may never get out. What is over, is really over... unless he cheated his ex's money or smthg u cannot not know more abt.. then it shld be broken up n move on like how ur boo did.. jus think of how lucky u are to be in this relationship though this guy belonged to the previous girl but u shld count ur blessings... it nearly might nt have been u if they hadn't broken up. right?